A man reprimand of a new hire for not addressing him as Sir has sparked a lively debate about workplace norms. The exchange has prompted discussions on the significance of formal titles, respect and the evolving expectations around communication in professional environments. While some believe such formalities uphold respect others argue that they are relics of the past and unnecessary in today more casual workplaces.
The post ignited heated debate on the balance between respecting traditional norms and adapting to modern workplace culture.
Effective communication is a crucial skill for handling professional matters appropriately. However when addressing superiors, regional differences in norms often come into play. In the United States addressing conventions differ significantly from those in India and South Asian countries typically have unique traditions that emphasize cultural respect. As global connectivity increases through online platforms these regional variations are becoming less pronounced yet not everyone adapts to these changes easily. At times more casual tone can be misinterpreted or become inappropriate when speaking to seniors who still value traditional forms of respect. This can lead to misunderstandings or create uncomfortable professional relationships. As workplaces become more interconnected understanding and respecting diverse addressing norms is essential for maintaining decorum and supporting career advancement.
When not handled carefully even well intentioned LinkedIn message can spark conflict as writer and blogger Saket recently pointed out in a post on X (formerly Twitter). He recounted an interaction with a recent graduate from his alma mater whose informal use of his first name left a negative impression.
Saket shared the exchange on social media Call me old fashioned but 2025 graduate from my college messaged me on LinkedIn and started with Hi Saket we are from the same college and he lost me there itself. Son you are a 2025 graduate and you address a 1994 graduate by their first name? I still address 1993 and earlier graduates as Sir. This Americanized culture.
